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03/31

2010

Don’t Be Afraid To Show Your Love

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If you are in love and you are afraid to reveal your feelings, there’s a big chance that you may be too aggressive with the person you love, exactly because you are too afraid to reveal your weakness.

As a result, you are too cold with them and you don’t help them in any way. Your behavior with them is not normal behavior. If they were any other person, you would not be so rude. As a matter of fact, you would not be rude at all, but kind and gentle.

However, because you are trying to hide your weakness in front of this special person, you are an iceberg with them, completely indifferent to their problems and pain. You never help them and never show any sympathy.

You are always afraid that they may interpret any kindness as a sign of weakness and conclude that you are dying of love. You are afraid that they will destroy you completely if they tell you that they don’t want you.

Because you are so afraid, you are never kind and helpful with them as you would be if they were not so special to you. Because of your fear, you hurt them. You are aggressive, insensitive, distant, and selfish—in other words, the perfect monster. Of course you cannot inspire love…

How romantic!  Instead of smiling and being kind, you are rude, cruel, and absurd.

Perhaps you imagine that “when you’re finally together” you’ll be able to make him or her forget this image completely. You imagine that “they will understand your weakness” and forgive you for your cruelty.

You may even try to test their reactions and provoke them with a lot of painful experiences, in order to see if they are going to abandon you or if they are going to find another flirt. If and if and if, until you’re sure you can reveal to them the most secret feeling in the universe: the love you feel for them.

However, you are not considering a possibility that you should consider from the beginning: perhaps they won’t wait to see the other, nicer side of your personality after seeing how cold and immature you are.

Of course, you have to also realize that there are a few intelligent people in this world who can understand the meaning of human reactions and who will discover your secret, only because you are being aggressive instead of kind and gentle, as you would be if you were not trying to hide your feelings.

My advice is this: if you cannot be normal, pretend you are normal on purpose. Do many normal things in a very normal way, even though you may feel horrible because you believe that you should not be so kind with that special person, since it is obvious that they are going to understand that you desperately love them and that they can kill you with their rejection.

Pretend that they are not this special person, but somebody else not so important.

This is the only way to avoid the neurosis that will certainly dominate you if you insist on being cruel and distant, simply because you want to hide your feelings from the person you love.

03/31

2010

Ideal Couples – Love & Happiness For Life

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I’m sure that at least once in your life you have met an ideal couple, who everyone could see was very happy in being together.

What can you do so that you and your partner will be among the happiest couples?

You have to care about learning many things about the person you love, even before getting involved with them.

Love and happiness in life are hard to find, and even harder to be kept for life. So, ideal couples are in fact very rare.

What can you do in order to find the ideal person for you, or how can you judge the person you already love?

1. You have to pay attention to their reactions. If they are selfish and they don’t care about the way you feel, this means that you have to think seriously if you really want to have an affair with them…

2. There are 8 different psychological types that define everyone’s personality. You have to have an idea of how they match together to see if you and your partner really fit together.

3. There are many dangers in a relationship that you must learn how to avoid.

These are your basic first steps. But there are many more…

Pay attention to everything about the other person. Carefully analyze their style, their answers, their behavior, everything you can.

Everything depends on your seriousness. Life is not a toy and the human being is very wild, since he has already inherited too much absurdity in the anti-conscience, the primitive part of his brain.

You have to be very careful so that you don’t get involved with people that will only make you suffer!

If you want to be really happy in life, not only in love, as well as in all fields, you have to learn how to transform your own personality first of all, so that you’ll always be balanced and wise.

Besides that, you’ll know very well who the people that live around you are, since you’ll have information about everything in your own dreams.

Be intelligent and responsible, and you’ll certainly find true love and happiness in life, and they will not only last for life but will help other people believe in love and happiness thanks to your example, since you and the person you love will be an ideal couple admired by everyone!

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Prevent Depression and Craziness through the scientific method of Dream Interpretation discovered by Carl Jung and simplified by Christina Sponias, a writer who continued Jung’s research in the unknown region of the human psychic sphere.

03/31

2010

Love Is Not Enough

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So you think love is enough to get your marriage or long term relationship through the difficult times. Well think again. It’s not that easy.  A complete contentness is vitally important to the health and welfare of your relationship.

Of course you have to have all the main ingredients that make a great relationship casserole. Open communication, a deep sense of loyalty and respect a heavy helping of friendship are vitally important. Any one of these missing ingredients can doom all the work and time that both of you have invested into the relationship. However you have to feel content.

In other words an intense feeling of being content with each other is essential. Content is defined as not wanting more. Are you wanting more than what you’re getting in your relationship. If the answer is yes, then it’s time to talk with your partner and open the line of communication.

When one party feels neglected or somehow overlooked this can lead to infidelity or cheating. Relationships that experience infidelity usually have that person looking for something that he or she is not getting in the relationship. It could be a number of things like the loss of sexual appetite, the feeling of you don’t understand me anymore or financial insecurity.

How many marriages have ended due to one of these issues? Although there are no stats that include these problems I would venture a guess and say that 100% of all divorces and long term relationship break-ups are due to one or more of these things.

Relationships tend to fall into a regular routine. And before you know it you’re stuck in a rut and end up “settling”. There is a huge difference between settling and being content. When you settle you are missing something when you are content you are looking for nothing else.

Love only goes so far in a relationship work will take you to being complete.

As anyone who is in a committed relationship will tell you, love is most certainly not enough when it comes to finding happiness in a partnership. Trust, communication, respect, and reciprocal friendship are important components in any relationship and the death of any one of these essential ingredients can often spell disaster for the relationship as a whole. But the fact remains that in the course of our union we will all be faced with an inevitable relationship test that can have one of several outcomes – the ending of the relationship, the continuing of the relationship that is now forever damaged by the event, or the beginning of a new chapter in the relationship – one that signifies a much stronger union and the promise of a happy future.

One such relationship test is one in which the trust of either or both partners is tested in the face of infidelity. There are many reasons that infidelity occurs in a relationship but it is – without fail – always indicative of a much larger problem in the relationship. In most cases, the partner who discovers the infidelity will immediately end the relationship or perhaps continue in the relationship because there are children involved or financial reasons that make the continuance of the union a practical decision. In either case, the couple has lost the opportunity to emerge from the experience stronger and much more committed to a future in which they both feel a part. If both parties are invested in the continuing of the relationship, professional counseling can provide a chance to get to know each other again and rebuild a solid foundation of trust. As incredible as it may sound, this relationship test can be one – that if passed – can deliver the couple to new heights of love and partnership.

Many a couple has experienced a relationship test in which finances are the star. Money is one of the prime factors over which couples argue and even separate. This often comes from a base history of handling money differently – based upon the ways in which we were all taught to think about finances from our parents. When two people come together with very different financial compasses, they are often left feeling frustrated and disrespected by each other. There is financial counseling available that works with couples of this very kind. Such counseling allows couples to move past their preconceived ideas about money and reformulate a shared goal and plan for finances in their relationship. If statistics are correct, then 50% of couples who face this financial relationship test have failed – losing each other to their different feelings about money. But if you approach this situation as a challenge and seek resources that can help you redefine your relationship in this capacity, you can move on to a respectful relationship with shared values.

Every couple will face a relationship test in their lifetime; such is the inevitability of love. But if you love and respect each other enough, you can move through the challenge and emerge into a place of light, love, and happiness.

02/15

2010

The relationship quiz that could end it all.

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So you’ve been dating a while or are considering having a long term relationship with that person. You’ve been together a few months and now the newness of the relationship is starting to wear off. You know the I can’t stop thinking about him all the time, part. Or she just has my head dancing all the time. This is also known as the infatuation. Every relationship new or old has had it. It’s the part of the relationship that made you two fall in love with each other.

Now it’s gone. Now you’re asking yourself is this person the right person for me? Below is the aiz that could end the relationship or bring the fire to an intense heat of love. Be ready for the answers you may not like what you are about to hear.

1. What is important to you in a marriage situation?

This is a definite thought question. Watch his body language as he is thinking of an answer. Is the answer honest and though our or does it come off as an answer he thinks you want to hear?

2. What are your long term goals for your life.

Most of us women want to know if those goals have any mention of us in them. If those goals

are all geared towards work or something outside the relationship we may want to move on.

3. Where do you see our relationship in the next 3-5 years?

Make sure you have been together a while before you ask your man this question. The thought

Of being with somebody in 5 years can be a pressure question and scare your guy off. Of course if that happens then you two are finding out early on whether or not this relationship will be long term.

4. What is it about me that you wish you could change?

This will give him the opportunity to get his pet peeves out into the open. However  this shouldn’t be a session where he’s going to rail you for the next hour.

5. What are your thoughts on money?

Is he a spender. If he has been pretty loose with his money during the infatuation phase by showering you with gifts etc getting the answer to this question is paramount because if he actually is a freewheeling spender he’s got a stash somewhere or he’s going to be broke in a short amount of time.

6. What caused your last relationship to end?

You’re looking for a well thought out answer. If he begins to pass all the blame on to his last mate as to the end of the relationship he’ll be doing the same thing when yours ends. Look for him to put some of the blame on himself for the most truthful answer.

7. How do you feel about our relationship when we’re not together?

This will tell you if he is secure with himself because if he says that he can’t stand to think about you being with another man when all you do is go have lunch with the girls you have a big time controller on your hands. Better to find out right now.

These questions may be best answered when you two are not together. Take the questions and work on them alone and separate then make time to get together to go over your answers.

Remember to keep in mind this short relationship quiz is only a start to get you two to communicate openly about things that you don’t talk about in your everyday conversations.